“The sweetest woman in the world
Can be the meanest woman in the world
If you make her that way…”
Don’t ever underestimate the influence your partner has on you and your life.
I woke up early this morning, left Sugar balled up in our bed and felt compelled to write…
When you are in a relationship with someone that loves you it affects your entire world changes. I’m speaking the obvious? Let me expand on that…
When I say someone loves you, I mean they accept you exactly how you are. They know you, they know what to expect out of you and it is enough. They won’t pressure you or manipulate you because they love YOU, not the you they think you can be.
While you generally don’t experience that type of love from another person until you live yourself, there is nothing better than being loved despite your quirks and imperfections.
There is one relationship I think about a lot because I was so unhappy. I said to her once that she made me feel bad about being me. Her influence in my life changed me, changed my world.
I blamed her, but it’s my responsibility to myself to protect myself from someone that obviously wasn’t healthy for me. It’s also my responsibility to love myself so much that no one can make me feel bad about being me. You have to be secure enough to say, “I’m fuckin awesome!” and move on to someone that will agree.
You ARE fuckin’ awesome little brown woman…my awesome…
The feeling is completely mutual, Sugar!!
Wow Alix, this post was exactly what I needed to hear. It was well worth the wait.
Thanks for being you, and sharing your thoughts.
Glad you liked it! Thank you for your continued support!
Loved this post. It echoed sentiments from my last relationship, so deep within me that I forgot existed.
Yay! We all need reminders every now and again…
This was a very strong post in it’s message. It certainly provides plenty to think about! Glad you shared.
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You are so right!! You put into words what’s been on my mind but I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Great post!!
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AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!
I’m so very happy for you!
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I wholeheartedly agree. It’s amazing when you find the “right” woman. Your true self is then celebrated and completely appreciated. Yay for love!!
The post reminds me of an old love song that goes “…you’ve got to love me for what I am, for simply being me. Don’t love me for what you intend or hope that I will be…” Indeed love is unconditional. We don’t change people before loving them. It’s simply loving them without questions, without ifs, and without buts. Love is unfathomable,so instead of understanding the logical reasons behind this intense emotion, we rather just simply let it flow — just feel the love.
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