“The sweetest woman in the world
Can be the meanest woman in the world
If you make her that way…”
Don’t ever underestimate the influence your partner has on you and your life.
I woke up early this morning, left Sugar balled up in our bed and felt compelled to write…
When you are in a relationship with someone that loves you it affects your entire world changes. I’m speaking the obvious? Let me expand on that…
When I say someone loves you, I mean they accept you exactly how you are. They know you, they know what to expect out of you and it is enough. They won’t pressure you or manipulate you because they love YOU, not the you they think you can be.
While you generally don’t experience that type of love from another person until you live yourself, there is nothing better than being loved despite your quirks and imperfections.
There is one relationship I think about a lot because I was so unhappy. I said to her once that she made me feel bad about being me. Her influence in my life changed me, changed my world.
I blamed her, but it’s my responsibility to myself to protect myself from someone that obviously wasn’t healthy for me. It’s also my responsibility to love myself so much that no one can make me feel bad about being me. You have to be secure enough to say, “I’m fuckin awesome!” and move on to someone that will agree.