I was having a moment. One day my life, or maybe just my mind (I’m not sure which is worse), was filled with other people’s needs/wants. Who were these people? Girls. Girls that were not my girlfriend. Girls that would never be my girlfriend. Girls that I was still somehow romantically linked to. I was sat and wondered, how the fuck did I get here?

My brother happened to call while I was having this thought. She was in a similar (but not the same) position. I told her how I was over it. I just wanted to focus on me. ...Keep Reading

I’ve been thinking a lot about past relationships. One relationship sticks out like a sour thumb. It’s not because it was good. It sticks out because it never should have been a romantic relationship.

Ever meet someone and this person looks so good on paper that you feel yourself drawn to them? You can literally start checking things off the list of your requirements for your partner. They meet your list of wants perfectly.

In my situation, even though she was what I wanted, she wasn’t what I needed.

I could not be my normal sweet self with her. Why? I don’t know. ...Keep Reading

I met this girl once and within a week, I knew her life story. I knew she felt rejected by her mom. Inadequate with women. Blocked as an artist. She talked and talked, telling me long stories of betrayal, heartbreak and pain. She told me how she felt so comfortable revealing so much of herself to me. I was flattered…

Until I saw her tipsy at a party. She was surrounded by a circle of people and she told them the very same stories she told me.

She had been told by friends not to reveal too much of herself, but ...Keep Reading

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results -Albert Einstein

I was talking to my brother about relationships and women. Two of our favorite topics. Actually one topic if you think about it. You can’t have one without the other…

I’m looking back on my past relationships and I’m hoping there is a better outcome in my future. In order to get a better outcome, I must do something different right?

Do someting different. It sounds so simple… But romance is not a math problem. I can’t look at step 3 and add instead of subtract to get ...Keep Reading

I often compare the women I attract to baby birds with broken wings. I am a magnet for girls that need a bit of nurturing. Maybe they have a severely broken heart. Maybe they are jobless. Maybe they are homeless. Maybe they are esteemless (yes, I just made up my own word. shoot me).

I know how to help them get back in the sky again. I’m a natural nurturer. I know what to say and what to do to make a woman feel whole. I’m good at ego stroking. I can be supportive. I can help build you up.

I realize ...Keep Reading