During my sabbatical, I’ve had people admit to crushes, I’ve had people try to set me up, I’ve made new “friends.” Why now?
There is something about eliminating pressure from the “getting to know you” process that allows things to just flow. There is no pretext. No thought of expectations. We can exchange words. We can talk when we feel like it. We can do whatever because I’m not in the space where I can make demands of anyone.
To me it’s kinda like having someone tell you they are celibate. The anticipation or worry about how a date will end disappears. ...Keep Reading
3x -(-9x + 7)/4x = Insanity 29.06.
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results -Albert Einstein
I was talking to my brother about relationships and women. Two of our favorite topics. Actually one topic if you think about it. You can’t have one without the other…
I’m looking back on my past relationships and I’m hoping there is a better outcome in my future. In order to get a better outcome, I must do something different right?
Do someting different. It sounds so simple… But romance is not a math problem. I can’t look at step 3 and add instead of subtract to get ...Keep Reading
Two Good Wings 28.06.
I often compare the women I attract to baby birds with broken wings. I am a magnet for girls that need a bit of nurturing. Maybe they have a severely broken heart. Maybe they are jobless. Maybe they are homeless. Maybe they are esteemless (yes, I just made up my own word. shoot me).
I know how to help them get back in the sky again. I’m a natural nurturer. I know what to say and what to do to make a woman feel whole. I’m good at ego stroking. I can be supportive. I can help build you up.
I realize ...Keep Reading
Waiting Instead of Walking 05.04.
If there is a long line at a store, I will put whatever I have back and leave the store.
A long line at an amusement park? Forget it!
Don’t tell me you have something to tell me, but you’ll tell me later. I can’t handle it!
I am impatient. There I said it. I admit it. It’s 125% true.
I will walk around people that are walking slow in front of me.
When I’m out at dinner, I want my check as soon as I push my plate away from me.
I don’t even like to wait for my cakes to cool before I spread ...Keep Reading
For Keeps 23.03.
My first real boyfriend said something to me once, something that he learned from his father about relationships. He said never to start doing something for someone that you didn’t intend to keep doing.
Makes sense right? If you display certain behaviors during your courtship, it makes sense that someone would expect those same behaviors to continue through the course of your relationship.
It make sense, but how often do we forget that? I know I’ve forgotten over and over again. We have to keep doing the things we did to get our lover to keep them as our lover.
Realistically, we aren’t ...Keep Reading
