I’ll be waiting I can’t smile until I see your smile I’ll be waiting There’s nothing else that I would rather do I’ll be waiting ‘cus I can’t sleep until I hear your heart I’ll be waiting Patiently I’ll wait right here for you Beyonce- Waiting

If you haven’t figured it out, we (She & I) have not met. It seems as though every lesbian that I’m remotely compatible with lives outside of a 500 mile radius. Sigh.

It doesn’t matter because even if she was here, I could not date her. I still have a month left on my sabbatical. And while she wanted to come visit ...Keep Reading

I’m 32 years old. Despite the fact that I don’t look it, it is my reality.

I have been engaged. I have been called wifey and wife (and there is a difference). I have been given rings. I have purchased one ring…But look at me now. I’m single.

I have crushed. I have fucked. I have loved. I have moved. I have sacrificed. I have hurt. I have recovered…But still I’m single.

And while there is nothing wrong with being single, I can’t help but think I’m too old for this shit.

Where is my wife?

When my last girlfriend spoke of us getting married, ...Keep Reading

She told me a story about this man, a player, a pimp that journalled his exploits. When he was ready to settle down, he gave his journals to his bride-to-be. She questioned that move. Why would you do that? “If she still wants me after she reads all of that, then she really loves me.”

Hmmm…

I’ve spent quite a bit of time on Her blog. Yes, I said it. Her blog. I’ve been aware of Her work for some time, but I wasn’t a regular reader. Until now. Funny how that works, right?

When She told me the story about the player ...Keep Reading

On another post Kat asked: What are your thoughts on what those of us on this side of the story should do? Do we hide our accomplishments (just kidding)? Do we miss out on really great people by only dating ones that have completed the same check boxes and had the same life experiences (which sounds kinda dull)? How do we help the person we’re dating to feel like they are enough simply by being who they are?

The post that prompted these questions has to deal with career and finance, but I think if we get down to ...Keep Reading

If you think of me Half as much as I do you Confide in me Lets play for keeps And I can tell you all the things I longed to say The future wants We’ll find a way And we can let it go Goapele-Crushed Out

It doesn’t happen often that someone can render me speechless, but she has managed to do it. I find myself trying to write about her and my thoughts come out disjointed in small spurts, in incomplete thoughts. I know how I feel, but I can’t find the words to express the emotion…

A few incomplete thoughts of her from my scatterbrained ...Keep Reading